Neil Slattery, RSW
Couples & Sex Therapy, Family Systems, Youth & Trauma Care
Expert Therapist
Registered Social Worker, he/him
OCSWSSW #226276
Whether you and your partner are navigating sexual intimacy challenges, caught in repetitive argument cycles, or your family is trying to make sense of life's heavy pressures—Neil brings a calm, practical, and deeply relational approach to every room he steps into.
Note on Booking:
Because Neil works part-time and personally coordinates his own schedule, online self-booking is not available for his calendar. Please reach out via direct inquiry to connect about current availability.
AREAS OF PRACTICE
Couples, Relational & Sex Therapy
De-escalating conflict, rebuilding trust, navigating desire differences, improving sexual communication, and helping couples shift out of blame cycles and into deep intimacy.
Family Systems & Parent-Teen Support
Navigating high-stress family dynamics, parent-teen communication gaps, major household transitions, and helping families co-create peace and mutual understanding.
Youth & Young Adult Mental Health
A down-to-earth, relatable space for teens and young adults dealing with school stress, identity, executive dysfunction/ADHD, anxiety, and big life transitions.
Trauma & Nervous System Healing
Processing deep-seated trauma, relational wounds, chronic stress, and building practical grounding strategies for a regulated nervous system.
What Therapy with Neil Feels Like
Neil believes that people don't need clinical lecturing—they need a real human who listens without judgment and helps them make sense of the noise. His approach is warm, pragmatic, and collaborative. Whether working with a couple at a relationship crossroads, addressing intimacy concerns, or supporting a teenager struggling to express what's wrong, Neil meets people exactly where they are with steady guidance, empathy, and constructive direction.
In-Person & Virtual Options:
Available for in-person sessions at our Nepean office (1439 Woodroffe Ave — free parking behind the building, quiet sensory-friendly waiting space) and virtual therapy across Ontario.
Education
St. Thomas University
1991
Bachelor’s of Arts Degree
Sociology
Carleton University
1994
Master’s of Arts Degree
Sociology
1996
Bachelor’s Degree
Social Work
Therapy Modalities
Attachment-based
Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
Dialectical Behaviour (DBT)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Polyvagal Theory (Trauma)
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused
Outside the Therapy Room
When he’s not supporting clients, you can find Neil unwinding with his partner, enjoying quality time with close friends, or catching a local ABBA tribute show whenever one hits the stage. He brings the same warmth and joy to his personal life that he brings to his practice—grounded, playful, and always tuned into what matters most.
Session Rates, Coverage & Booking FAQs
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Session fee for individual therapy is $220 per 50 minutes, with rates of $245 for couples, sex, and family therapy. Specific rates for longer sessions are discussed during your initial inquiry call should that be beneficial for your work. We want you know exactly what to expect for cost before booking.
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Yes! Neil is a Registered Social Worker (RSW) in Ontario. Most extended health benefit plans in Ontario cover RSW services.
Insurance Tip: We always recommend calling your provider before your first session to confirm your policy covers a Registered Social Worker (RSW). A tiny handful of specific insurers have policy quirks regarding degree designations (e.g., requiring an MSW rather than a BSW).
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Yes. Neil is an approved Provider for the Non-Insured Health Benefits (NIHB) program for Indigenous clients.
For all other extended health insurance plans, we provide detailed receipts after every payment so you can submit them directly to your provider for reimbursement.
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Because Neil works part-time and personally coordinates his schedule, online self-booking is disabled for his calendar. To inquire about current availability, simply fill out our contact form or email hello@changetidestherapy.com — we will follow up directly!
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It’s a free, 15-minute, zero-pressure chat to discuss what you, your partner, or your family are looking for, answer any financial or insurance questions, and make sure Neil feels like the right clinical fit before scheduling a full session.
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Both! Neil offers in-person therapy at our Nepean office (1439 Woodroffe Ave, featuring free private parking directly behind the building and a quiet waiting area) on Tuesdays and Thursdays, as well as secure virtual therapy online across all of Ontario at any mutually agreed upon time.
Ready to connect with Neil?
You don't have to navigate relationship stress, intimacy challenges, family conflict, or heavy personal struggles alone. Reach out directly to inquire about Neil's current availability.