The Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle: How to Break the Loop Without Losing Each Other

Ever feel like you’re trapped in the exact same argument on loop? One of you is desperate to talk it through right now, while the other is suffocating and needs to get away. This isn't proof that your love is broken—it's the classic pursuer-withdrawer cycle. Here is what is actually happening in your nervous systems, and how to stop it.